Girl Code

      Girl code is a topic I, as a female and all, am very very familiar with, Girl code is simply a bunch of spoken/unspoken laws that go around the girl community, it's quite like Bro code only difference more of less is repercussions and the fact that Girl code is more universal and what not.

Girl code can easily be explained as a set of rules, ethnics and even beliefs that demands ultimate loyalty to one's female friends above anyone else, be it parents, siblings, and in extreme cases God- no one's above a female

   As seen, we as females are all in this cult universally, we're all sisters you know?, As females of the world we're all expected to follow a set of written/unwritten rules in order to keep friendships, at some point in our lives, we've been asked to sacrifice happiness and what we want to do, so we don't lose our female friends

To me, personally, I feel girl code is more or less messed up, in most aspects really cause I see no absolute reason to follow some of these unbelievable rules that don't have it in the interests of universal happiness 

Some aspects of Girl code are actually pretty bizzare and don't make sense at all, whereas some rules are actually rules we as females are demanded to follow cause they stand for universal happiness, and other rules stand right in between 

I shall comply a list of the rules we as girls are expected to follow (if you still want to be regarded as a girl) these are rules that must and should follow you for life whether your a teen, in your 20s, 30s or hell even if your using a cane to support yourself these rules never die 

GIRL CODE RULES

        1.   As a girl , you can never hook up with a guy, your friend has had a crush on or dated or expressed interest in: This is a universal law this is one of the most generally accepted girl code... Ever... This us a top law that must be respected by every female whether your Swiddish, Peruvian, or Ghanian. This is a huge rule in the community of females. And let's be honest it's a dumb rule. Like I get it's awkward for the ex and all but at the end of the day it doesn't stand for universal happiness it's just a very heartbreaking rule. Imagine if your friend actually likes this guy a whole lot and your ex likes her too what's the point of stepping in between that happiness right? 

Repercussions

Sudden Death

I can swear this shit actually happens you know. 

 

         2. As a girl you can never be friends with someone who YOUR friend considers an enemy: Not to be hypocritical but like this is a rule me and my friends follow all the time, I mean all girls should be friends to be honest but then there these girls 

These girls who you'd... You'd... Like stick their head in a blender without thinking and without remorse (not to be so violent) but they is always gonna be a female you'd wanna do that to without wasting time.

These girls cannot relate with anyone in your circle cause well... You don't like them and cause you don't like them your friends shouldn't like them especially if they aren't even good people anyways. This is one of those rules that just kinda stand in between.

Repercussions

Automatic cut off

You'll be automatically cut off by your friends, your friends would either make it super obvious or if your lucky they'd just leave you out of most things wouldn't want you spilling to the enemy. 

      3. As a girl you cannot look more attractive than your friend IF it's their speacial day: It's just rude. I mean it's my wedding and that's the day you remember you have this beautiful lace flowing high low gown, with your red bottom heels, HELL NO. Best believe you gon be thrown out through the back door. Like no jokes. This is a generally accepted rule and should not be disobeyed like won't your conscious kill you for crying out loud, and not just at weddings, birthday parites or whatever ad long ad that day should be used to celebrate your friend best to just come in a rag to be safe. 

Repercussions

Side eyes and jabs at whatever event

If your in a group and you decide to pull this kind of a stunt believe the whole squad is gonna come after you, respect yourself. 

      4. As a female you should NEVER tell a fellow girl that a guy isn't into her even if it's the truth: This is a rule that girls use to protect themselves from hurt, according to a few this rule is used to not allow a fellow female feel bad about herself you know? I do not actually know where I stand with his rule cause I would never want someome to lie to me but then again in some situations I would lie to my friends protecting their self esteem and all plus it would be better for them to find out themselves. This is a very tricky rule it ultimately defines how close you are to that person and your beliefs as your own individual and not ad the member of a cult but there are still repercussions. 

Repercussions

Silent treatment.

This is a very common tool amongst females, when your too heavenly blunt with your friend about whatever they like, they don't tell you stuff anymore cause they assume you'll just be sour about it, severely they'll cut you off 

       5. As a girl, you should never spread another girl's secret EVER:  This is a rule that promotes universal happiness I mean it's called a secret for a damn reason right?, they don't want it to be told to anyone else okay. Respect that. 

Repercussions

Automatic cut off

I mean you're a snitch why the hell not. 

These are the few rules I am not so lazy write, there are so many more rules that we cult members have created to protect the our hearts, souls and even our mental healths. And they aren't wrong at all, at least not most, just know that at the end of the day all that matters is universal happiness, plus your happiness do all that makes you happy. That's all that matters, don't give up the love of your life for a friend, don't go to a party cause of a friend, don't lie to your friends. Be happy people.

~Deeola