Deeola's blog

    Acceptance, that is what self-confidence is exactly, being self-confident means accepting yourself for what you stand for and who you are.  You gain self-confidence by; Accepting yourself.      That is literally one of the best things you can do to gain confidence. Actually, it's the only thing you can do.  You see the opposite of self-confidence is doubt and skepticism.        Self-confidence is defined as being assured and certain in your skills           Whereas      Doubt/skepticism is you having a feeling of  uncertainty  or lack conviction           Self-confidence cannot be built in a single day, you cannot just wake up, post a selfie with a "loving myself" caption and decide that you are self-confident. No ma, Self-confidence goes into deep layers, you have to start from deep down in yourself,  you ...

It is not at all easy finding something you would want to do for the rest of your life right? Not in the slightest way Choosing a career is one of the scariest thing to do in/before your final year (where I am), cause once you've chosen that career that is going to be your main  source of income for more or less the rest of your life, you cannot just wing  this important decision that defines you as an individual. Careers change over time, they change constantly till you settle down in a spot (career) and this very spot you decide to settle has to be beneficiary, you have to like it and earn from it.  When I was 4, if you'd ask me what I wanted to be, I'd tell you "a fairy" the simpler times right?, I'd want wings and a wand and all of that junk, I was down for spending the rest of my life in the air granting wishes to children and dogs. That was all I wanted to do, to be honest, and at the time, my parents found absolutely nothing wrong with that, the whole i...

     Heartbreak, (unfortunately or fortunately) is one of the most inescapable occurrences in our existence. It's something no one can deny having a share of. As long as you are reading this right now. You have suffered through heartbreak.          And don't get it twisted my friends, I'm not saying majority of you have had your hearts broken by the male or female species. Heartbreak isn't just about: boy sees girl, boy likes girl, girl (from out of freaking nowhere) starts to like boy too, boy asks girl out, girl says yes, boy screws girl over, girl sits in her room, battling depression with chocolate icecream, or vice versa. Heartbreak, or rather the cause of heartbreak comes in different shapes and sizes people.          Heartbreak can actually be cause of so many things; heartbreak could come from, a cartoon character, a cringy TV show, Lion King, most commonly a person or an animal.          M...