As a human, it's involuntarily to have feelings for another person and sometimes when these feelings occur we have no idea how to deal with them especially when it happens for the first time, hell the first time we don't even know or sure if it's a crush, we even feel kinda stupid and sometimes even a bit confused, and sometimes look it up on the internet, I know when I had my first crush I searched different sites on
~"How to know if a guy likes you"
~"How to know if I have feelings for someone", and I'd read these articles and relate them to my everyday life the internet was (and still is) my home
But sometimes fortunately or unfortunately some of us don't use the internet to solve such problems we instead turn to the likes of social interactions, most meet best friends for advice or sometimes to form a maniacal plan on how to kidnap the boy and lock him in a cage where he can be with you for the rest of his life.
Or no okay either way is fine anyways, and a few of us look towards our parents for advice cause y'all have that option, I on the other hand, as a Nigerian female and I know my fellow Nigerian girls can testify do not have that as an option unless your looking for a slap.
Going to either friends or family they all give you advice, you know long speeches with bits of quotes and all that yeah, anyways let us begin *jazz hands here* : The worst advice ever heard about a male
Advice remains the same whether given to by a friend, family, dog, alien it all remains the same
Except for the content
The content is almost always different, and without much talk, these are but a few of the worst advice given about the male specie
~He only hits and/or insults you, cause he likes you and his trying to get your attention: To be very honest this is the dumbest thing I have ever heard, and although I won't lie in a few cases it's actually true cause he can't express himself well at a young age like let's say 5 - 12, so yeah if the boy is around that age you can accept that bullshit but I still feel there's no absolute reason for you to insult or hit a girl, maybe tease but still no, you want to get her attention walk over to her and say "Hey". I find it weird when a boy over 15 is insulting you and you friend is saying he "likes you" please walk away they do not want the best for you.
~He likes you and is just trying to make you jealous: Okay so honestly this one's actually a bit tricky but one thing I know is that if you two like each other then I feel there is no reason to make each other jealous it's childish and unnecessary, the guy your with kisses another girl cause he is trying to make you jealous is he mad?, or mad is he? Or she stays all night with one random guy cause she's trying to make you jealous, please don't kill yourself over such they are honestly not worth it, I feel like if a person feels they should try and make their crush or mate jealous or something it's cause they are looking for trouble or they feel you don't like them anymore, in some cases it's cute but in the severe ones please walk away like get your purse and slam the door.
~Learn to be a good wife first: It is very sad that this alone is an "advice" cause you're telling women that before being even a good human being they have to be a good wife tot heir husband first cause apparently that's their first duty to be the wife of another human being, this is wrong on more levels than one and should never be accepted by a woman. We train our female children to be good wives and how to cook and how to take care of their husband's that we completely forget to teach then how to be good people. Parents should understand that girls should be treated as individuals, as a single person and not as somebody's wife.
These are only three of the worst advice given about a guy and I can only think of three cause I. Am. Lazy. But at the end of the damn day think about this guy and do whatever you as an individual think is right.
~Deeola.
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